Thrive In 2023 And Beyond: 10 Power Habits For Optimal Mental Health

Taking good care of your mental health is an essential part of being a happy, healthy, and thriving human being. If one of your big goals for 2023 is improving your mental health, consider adopting these ten power habits to get yourself feeling mentally great in the new year.

Perform a “brain dump” at the end of each day. 

After a busy day, your mind may be racing with lots of thoughts at night. Rather than losing sleep over your concerns, troubles, responsibilities, and more, get into the habit of performing a “brain dump” at the end of each day. To dump your brain, grab a pen and a journal. Jot down any reflections or important thoughts you have concerning the entire day. Once it’s out of your mind and on paper, you can revisit it later and get good, uninterrupted rest now.

Get comfortable with feeling all your big, challenging emotions and tap on them to reduce their intensity.

It’s often tempting to take the “easy route” when faced with big, challenging emotions. If you ever attempt to hide or ignore your biggest emotions, you probably know how ineffective this method is for handling them. More often than not, those big feelings come roaring back even worse than they originally felt. Instead, get into the habit of feeling those big, challenging emotions in real-time. Process your emotions with Tapping as you feel them — it may be difficult while it’s happening, but it’s a much better way to handle them for the sake of your mental health.

Communicate how you are feeling with others.

Don’t let unsaid feelings spoil good relationships. Rather than hiding your feelings, communicate them with others — especially when those feelings relate to your relationship with another person. However I suggest that before you share, you might want to do a short session of tapping to create less attachment and imbalance before you share. While talking about feelings can be tough, doing so can prevent a lot of trouble and misunderstanding, and that’s good all-around for everyone’s mental health.

Make sure you are getting plenty of good, quality sleep each night and take naps when needed. 

Getting plenty of good, quality sleep is one of the best habits you can form to support good mental health. When your body is feeling well-rested, you are going to perform much better. You are probably going to need between 7 and 8 ½ hours of rest. You’re able to think clearly, make level-headed decisions, and focus on the tasks in front of you. To optimize your mental health, get into the habit of making sleep one of your biggest and most important priorities.  And during the day when you can, taking short 10-20 minute nap/relax breaks can make an amazing difference in your energy level and ability to focus.

Learn to regulate yourself through adopting some deep breathing exercise techniques or tapping to calm yourself down during particularly anxious or stressful moments.

Deep breathing exercises have been a part of meditation practices for thousands of years, and for good reason. Being able to regain control of your breathing is an excellent way to “rein in” other parts of your body, such as a racing heartbeat or mind, when you’re feeling out of control. Get into the habit of stepping aside when you’re feeling stressed out and taking some long, deep, and measured breaths to relax and regain control of yourself — your mental health will thank you.

Reach out to someone you trust when you need a little extra help. 

There is no shame in asking someone for help when you need it. If your mental health struggles feel too big to face alone, get into the habit of reaching out to someone you know and trust for support. Facing difficult emotions and life situations can be extremely mentally taxing; knowing who you can turn to in times of trouble can provide you with a sense of instant relaxation and relief. Identify the people in your circle of support and make a plan to reach out to them when you need it.

Speak to yourself with kindness and respect.

The way you speak to yourself has a massive impact on your overall mental health. If you tend to speak to yourself negatively or critically, get into the habit of speaking to yourself with kindness and respect instead. If anyone else spoke to you in a harsh way, you probably wouldn’t like them very much — the same concept applies to how you treat yourself. Get into the habit of being kind and respectful to yourself, particularly concerning your choice of words. This habit has the power to transform your mental health by improving your overall self image.

Spend time doing what you love to do most.

Life is full of demands. Make sure you are habitually prioritizing taking time to do the activities and hobbies you love most. Getting to enjoy time doing your favorite activities — whether it’s playing sports, making music, watching movies, or whatever else strikes your fancy — is a great way to restore your mental health and feel instantly more relaxed. Don’t feel tempted to push aside your personal time in favor of getting more done. When you plan time for your favorite hobbies, respect that time and actually use it for your choice of activity.

Schedule time for breaks and respect them when it’s time to take them. 

Working yourself 24/7 without breaks is unsustainable. To best protect your mental health, actually schedule some break times within your regularly busy day. When the time comes to take a break, allow yourself to actually take — and enjoy! — that moment of rest. Getting into the habit of taking breaks will not only help your mental health, but it’ll help your overall productivity. You’re far more likely to get more tasks done when you aren’t feeling tired and overworked.

Allow yourself to temporarily step away from stressful situations to gather your thoughts whenever possible.

Get into the habit of stepping away from a stressful situation for a few moments so you can take time to calm down and gather your thoughts. Often, you may find yourself feeling pressured to react ASAP when something stressful is happening. You don’t always have to act immediately. Whenever possible, practice stepping away for a temporary break to regain control of yourself and consider your options in the situation. This habit can save you from accidentally causing more issues for yourself in the long run while also protecting your mental health.

Joe Mitchell, Esquire is a High Performance Coach and EFT (Tapping) Practitioner, who has logged over 35 years of in depth study of personal and spiritual development. In his studies , he has done hundreds of self-development courses, spiritual retreats and health-related workshops. Coach Joe is a certified yoga teacher, meditation teacher, NLP Practitioner and a graduate of three coaching academies. Two years after he graduated from Harvard Law School, he became a monk for five years. In 2016, after over 20 years as a solo criminal and personal injury attorney, he decided to turn his heart’s passion into a career as a Success Coach, Motivational Speaker and Trainer. For information on Coach Joe’s programs, high performance videos and apply for a Free High Performance Session click the following link:http://www.activateyourgreatness.com/free-session.